Saturday, December 25, 2010

クリスマス






So it’s been a long LONG time since I last updated this blog…uh…sorry about that.

I’m pretty sure that I start ALL of my entries with that.

Anyways, today is Christmas!! Yay!!! Too bad it doesn’t feel like it AT ALL.

Christmas in Japan is one of the most awkward things I have seen EVER. To the Japanese, Christmas is a time to eat cake, fried chicken, give toys to kids, and go on dates. I really don’t see why they have it at all. Christmas REALLY IS more than just presents and jolly fat guys. It is jammed pack with history and tradition. So, here are a few things about Japan and Christmas
-Presents are from Santa to Kids only
-Unless you have a Christmas party, in which case it’s a good time to break out the Bingo and Bingo for first picks of 500yen presents (5$ about)
-Nearly everyone eats chicken on Christmas Eve, but not just any chicken, fried chicken and preferably from KFC. (The best explanation I got for this one is Mr. Sanders looks like Santa)
-Delivery Pizzas are also a good dinner option because the delivery guy dresses up as Santa
-There are no stockings
-Presents are placed at the head of the child’s bed
-There is typically only one present
-Parents and kids seem to be unaware of any coal, naughty and nice list, or anything else threatening like that
-They have special Christmas cakes.
-They had a music concert special on TV instead of the classic holiday movies and Yule log
-young people go on dates because it’s romantic
-It’s basically our New Years

Things they are really missing out on:
-Threatening children with Santa not coming
-eggnog
-receiving presents
-family
-movies
-holiday lights
-snow
-making reindeer food (oatmeal and glitter)
-paper snowflakes
-gingerbread everything
-a real dinner
-EVERYTHING

So, this is what I did for Christmas:
-Went bowling (yeah…I average around a 35)
-went to an okonomiyaki restaurant (okonomiyaki complete with cross made of mayo for my daily bread)
-came home to a party of kindergartners and their moms trying to organize…anything.
-at leftover party food and a Christmas cake
-made cookies (host parent’s present)
-stayed up till 3 making said cookies and helping Santa
-woke up at 12 the next day
-got a sweater and chocolate from Santa and sushi for lunch
-went to “go see” snow on top of one of the mountains but there was none
-went home and opened the presents from my (American) parents sent
-played chutes and ladders

That about covers it.

Overall I’m looking forward to New Years because it is the main event in Japan…and Christmas is not.

Also, I got my “going home” packet today. I really only have a month left…


(pictures are the creepy Santa at the "American Store" which sold cowboy boots and overpriced American Stuff--very entertaining, what was left of the Christmas Cake on Natchan, the Christmas party, amusing mirrors i found at the 100yen store, and the boxes i planned on shipping but thankfully found smaller ones)

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Japanese Parties...

This is a special post for Japanese Parties.

Because they sure are something special.

So far the parties I have been to are the AFS day party, AFS X-mas party, and the international club Halloween and x-mas parties.

Today was the international club Christmas party. We all went to the old cooking room to make food including pumpkin pie, pizza, soup and sandwiches (all the Christmas traditionals). That part was fun. So was eating it. After that is when the Japanese organization tends to come in. There was a "band" of sorts consisting of a guitarist...sort of...a pianist...sort of...and a vocalist and tambourines...
Their performance was the first time playing together..
well THAT was fun.
Other than that we did NOTHING. Except some guy ate too much and threw up.
Students sat around wondering what to do next.
There was a present exchange and that wasn't bad.

The problem with Japanese parties is that there is way too much organization. There is also more time spent cleaning and preparing than actually enjoying the party. and there are official start and end times just like the parties I went to when I was about 6 or so.

they also play games like bingo. WHO PLAYS BINGO FOR FUN?!

So, just a warning to future people Japan visitors. Don't come for the parties.

I think I heard the foreigner parties are much more fun though.

Saturday, December 11, 2010

tests and such





Well, this is one of the first weekends off I’ve had in a while. Actually, technically I should be studying for the tests this week…but they don’t really matter so I’m not too concerned. I sound like I’m lazy but there is a good reason for it. The last several weeks have been consumed by studying and writing essays. After my soccer practice with the old guys, I had to finish up my college essays which took me until Monday. It is NOT fun trying to write essays that will hopefully get you admitted into a good college when you’ve been immersed in another language for 3 months or so. NOT FUN.
Does the period go after the last word or at the beginning of the next sentence?
What’s another word for “said”?
I can’t think of a transition to save my life!
Why is part of my essay in hiragana???

Yeah.

Anyways, directly after my essays I realized I have a huge Japanese proficiency test this coming Sunday… maybe I should get studying for that.

I don’t think it was very fair of the LPs to ask us if we wanted to do the test when we were still new and not completely tired yet. They had convinced (aka pressured) me into doing N4 which is an intermediate level. My thinking was (back in August) hey, the test is in December! I’m fineeeeee.
Hah.
The first part of the test was reading and vocab. That was probably the hardest. You had to pick the right pronunciation of different Kanji which really played to my weak side. I can read the kanji fine, but the pronunciation is rarely there because I most of the time know the meaning and sometimes the pronunciation in Chinese. Yay.
The second part was grammar and that was a bit easier….but then again I still guessed most of them.
Listening was easy. But it also started to get too easy to where I got comfortable and forgot to listen to some of the questions…and they’re only read once.

So, all in all, the test was a giant pain and I’m glad it’s over.

Other than my lack of knowledge about the Japanese language, I also found out another thing. I don’t like the other foreigners here. (Most of them anyways) The other exchange students are fine, but the English teachers just drive me insane. My thinking was, “Hey! Other foreign people I can relate to!” They’re thinking is “Look, another student.” or “Another kid.” They all (mostly) think they are so wise and mature and old and I’m just some teenage girl from America. You would think that MAYBE just MAYBE the exchange students here are a LITTLE more mature than you’re average teenager seeing as we came here by ourselves, most of us away from home for the first time, to learn about a different culture and WHATNOT. So please stop treating us like children.
Example: Coming back from the test with one of the American teachers from my school and his friends who are also English teachers. One of the female English teachers, who took the SAME test as me, was talking about how she can’t pull off those long nights anymore and her dinner is based on whether she wants to do dishes or not. That somehow turned into how most Japanese homes don’t have dish washers. I said that my host family has one, but never uses it. I do the dishes by myself. She then took the opportunity to say something along the lines of “well, good that’s how it should be. You could use some good dish washing. I’ve washed enough dishes in my lifetime” sort of thing. A nice character building speech from some lady I don’t even know. Thank you for letting me finish and say my host mom also doesn’t use the dish washer anyways. Also, you’re how old?! My guess is still in your twenties seeing as the teacher at my school is 25. So no! You have not earned the right to say you’ve washed enough dishes! My grandma can say that! And also, you aren’t single handedly washes dishes for a family of 5, you just have your own to take care of which probably consists more of instant ramen cups than actual dishes.

“It was nice meeting you too!”

NOT.



Anyways.

One thing I noticed in Japan is the use of a symbol to mark shrines and such. It was brought to my attention by someone yelling “Oh my god! Did you see! They use the Nazi sign for shrines here!” as if it was some big scandal like they were hiding mini Nazis and the ashes of victims in the actual shrines.
That is ridiculous.
I knew it wasn’t the Nazi sign, but I didn’t know what the real meaning was so I checked the internet for some help. The sign used on the shrines is actually different than the Nazi sign; the arms point counterclockwise. The sign is a symbol of the sun and means purity, power and luck. Overall good things! It has been used since ancient times in a variety of different cultures. However, the Nazis took this symbol and transformed it into something horrible. The symbol itself means nothing bad at all. This doesn’t mean its ok for people to etch it on their desks and whatnot.
I’m glad I looked closer though.

Yesterday was the Christmas party for Shiga-ken’s AFS. It was pretty fun. I spent all yesterday morning making cookies that turned out pretty well! They were strawberry and blueberry sugar cookie type things. I just realized I forgot to take a picture…
One thing I have noticed about Japanese parties is that they are SO ORGANIZED. Or rather TOO organized. The Halloween party at school, the AFS parties, etc., are full of schedules and signs and lists and name tags and gah! All you really need to do is get an open space with music and people and you’re set! There is no need to organize a giant thing of bingo. I was trying to think of what American parties are like and they really are just food you can get at any time, as much as you want (no, two pieces of dessert at a time rule), talking, music, (and with my family at least) cards. But not really organized cards, more along the lines of whoever wants to play just sit down and play. Also, most American parties don’t have a set “end” time. People just come and go. In Japan, there is an actual start (like, “O.K. everyone. We’re going to start now) and an actual finish where everyone goes home at the same time.
Good thing I didn’t pick to go to Japan for the crazy parties.

Pictures are the soccer game I went to with Sam (Marie's host father) it was the only grass field in Japan I've seen so far, my drawing of Marie, and my advent calender from the Melers!! and a famous temple in Kyoto.

Monday, November 22, 2010

Soccer and Kyoto

So! This past Saturday, I got to play soccer!..but not normal soccer. My friend, and fellow exchange student, Marie has a host father who love to play soccer. He's about 50 or so. He plays every Saturday with a group of men in ages ranging from 21 to 60 I think. This past Saturday I got to join them and play goalie. It. was. GREAT! I hadn't played soccer in sooo long. It was funny because I could feel my confidence change going on the field and stepping off. Off the field I have to focus on my Japanese and not sounding like a total foreigner in another country, but on the field everything is so familiar so my confidence is up. Funny how that works. Anyways, Japan has some pretty lively old men! They could keep up with the 21 year old's for sure. And what is also amusing is that most of them smoke during the breaks!
Well, I know my knees don't approve but I think I'll be going back to play with them at least once more. Marie had said that her host dad said everyone was impressed with my performance :D

That very same day, I went to Kyoto with the AFS staff an exchange student from Canada and a former AFS student who is now teaching kindergartners English. It was a lot of fun. It was a perfect night and the trees were all changing color. Dinner was good too, I had a tiny thing of soba and a tiny thing of tempura over rice.
It wasn't very fun carrying my soccer stuff all over Kyoto though. I didn't have time to go back home after soccer that day.

Monday, November 15, 2010

CHINA!






yes. I went to China. As a school trip. (How awesome is that?! why don't we have school trips to Asia in America?!)We went to Shanghai and Suzhou. It was interesting, scary, fun, and tiring.

So, the first day we all met up at Kyoto station and from there went to the Kansai airport. I had forgotten that just because I'm used to being on airplanes doesn't mean everyone else is. The plane takes off and I hear all this excited loud chatter from the general direction of my group. Also, when we got to Shanghai airport in the baggage area my friend asked if it was ok to take her bag from the carousel hahahaha
From Shanghai we took a bus to Suzhou...and it broke down half way though...
so after waiting an hour or so a new bus finally came and we went to a five star hotel in Suzhou!!! Seriously, why not in America?!
The main scary part occurred right when we got to the level our rooms were on. Everyone had just gotten off the elevator and there were 3 huge probably drunk Chinese guys yelling at my Japanese classmates for no apparent reason. They had no idea what to do, seeing as they couldn't understand a word the Chinese guys were saying (Actually, I couldn't understand them either. And I've at least studied a little Chinese) So, I had to step in and say "they speak Japanese" in Chinese.
Well, at least they stopped yelling.
But now their focus was on me..

The moment they started trying to talk to me in Chinese was the moment all my Chinese education somehow disappeared.

Wonderful.

so the conversation went a little like this:
"nhjkdfhsfjld hlskfhc speak Chinese"
"uhhhhh i speak a little Chinese" (wo hui shuo yi dian zhong wen)
"what nationality?" (ni shi na guo ren?)
"...American" (...mei guo ren..)
"ohh America. beautiful" (in English)
"uhh..."

It was not fun. It was scary. He was three inches away and smelled like cigarettes.
fgvgd,hn\hgfcj khl hgdschdlshvgf sdlcf

The rest of the trip was good though!

We saw a lot of really old buildings and visited my Japanese school's sister school in Suzhou. The school just celebrated it's 1003 year old "birthday". That's. INSANE.

I got to tour the school with one of the Chinese students whose English name is Away. I don't think this is an actual name, but hey, why not. (I decided her Japanese name is あそ子)
She talked about how she wants to go to American and wants to go to Princeton. She thinks American guys and cool especially bald black guys. Her mom is really strict but she likes to get even by saying shes going to marry an American man.

She's an interesting person.

Although, it was really starting to bug me, every time I would try and speak to her in Chinese, she would obviously understand and then answer back in English. I didn't come on this trip so you could practice you're English!! Give me a chance to practice too! If I really wanted to speak English I would be back home by now!

We also went to several market type areas and an old city similar to Venice with the rivers and boats weaving throughout the city. The shop owners are very...aggressive. I heard a lot of "Hallo! Miss! You look!" I tend to just ignore them but my classmates had little to NO idea of what to do. They would smile and nod and try and get away but they would be followed. So I would occasionally have to drag them away from whoever was following them.

People took a LOT of picture of me. They would mysteriously gather in front of me when I would be looking at something in a shop and attempt to take a picture...until I move and then they have to actually ASK to take my picture. People also liked practicing whatever English they could conjure up at the moment like "Hello! Beautiful girl!"
I basically had to repeat over and over in my head "I'm from Sweden and I don't speak a word of English" like a mantra.

The food was awesome! We would all sit at a huge round table with a lazy susan in the middle and it would be filled with dishes and dishes of food! like magic!!!!!
It was interesting how Japanese people couldn't handle the spicy food though. Now that I think about it the Japanese only really have wasabi. They were all surprised at the fact I could use chopsticks (how long have I been here?!?!) and I could/ like to eat spicy food.

Pictures include: A bridge in one of the gardens, on the boats, Chinese circus we went to, and two of the guys messing around at the Pearl Tower because they were scared of the see-through floor.

Thursday, November 4, 2010

ひさしぶり





so its been a looooong time since i last updated with blog thingy. Sorry about that.

...

now I forget what I was going to write about...

to do list:
-AFS day
-osaka people
-yakimono
-pumpkin
-Kyudo

ALRIGHT!
so first, Kyudo tournament: it was LONG. and not horribly exciting but still interesting. We traveled to Zeze to a huge Japanese sports facility. They had rooms for things like kyudo, kendo, sumo and such. I didn't realize the people from our school were that good! We got a lot of rewards :D Anyways, everyone squeezed into the tiny hallway to look out the windows and see the actual competition. Every time someone from their school would hit the target everyone yells "YOSH!" really REALLY loudly. It's quite scary the first time.
Afterwards, at the end of the 6 or so hour competition all the schools line up and have to sit formally for an hour or so. that is NOT FUN. and very very painful, even if you don't have bad knees like I do. (sitting formally is sitting on your knees) I think it was around minuet 45 where I could reach back to touch my foot and think it was someone else's because it was so numb. Don't even bother trying to stand up after an hour of sitting like that by the way. You just fall back down. It takes a good 15min to work you way passed the prickling and stand. another 5min or so to actually walk.

PUMPKIN: actually, jack-o-lantern. Halloween being one of my favorite holidays means I could not simply leave this tradition behind in America. Although I couldn't find an orange pumpkin, there are plenty of green ones around. Another difference is that we actually ate this one after Halloween (but then again I carved it the day before Halloween, not 2 weeks before)

Yakimono: On Wednesday, we went and made pottery. I think the Japanese just really likes plates and cups and such...I don't really know why though. Afterwards we went to another famous otera (temple). I was really high up in the mountains and had a good view of lake biwa and the cities...but its still on my camera so I'll post it later I guess :D

Osaka People: They deserve a post of their own. They are NOT normal Japanese people. Normal Japanese people stare from afar but Osaka people will come up to you at the crosswalk, shake your hand and say "goodo morningu" as best they can. It's...entertaining. It's also entertaining when at that same crosswalk with Sari and Emilie, the old lady decided to tell her old man friend that he should take us to dinner..and we could understand.
oh osaka people...

Finaly AFS day: It was fun! Actually, it was really really boring, but seeing and talking to everyone was fun! Everyone introduced themselves and had pictures and clothes from their country. And then we all had to listen to the guest speakers speak for and hour or so...AKA exchange yo mama jokes and take pictures. ALSO MET SOMEONE FROM NORTHERN OHIO THERE!!!! <3
small world.

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Kyoto take 2!





Last Saturday I went to Kyoto...again!!!! Except this Kyoto was muuuccchhhh better than the last Kyoto trip I took (rain, wet shoes, didn't know where to go, last minuet planning, etc.) This time I went with my host family and my host father's sister.
We didn't go to downtown Kyoto but a smaller area with a bunch of little shoppes and souvenirs and temples and overall really cool stuff! There were also person-pulled carts giving tours.
Taking after my own aunt, my host aunt really loves Kyoto and of course dressing up--which in this case means kimonos--which means I also got to try and wear one.
IT'S HARDER THAN IT LOOKS
you can't move you legs more than a couple inches, and they tie everything so tight and it's hot and gahhh! Not to mention Kyoto is built on steep slopes and stairs.
But, if you are every having a bad day all you have to do it put on a kimono and EVERYONE starts complimenting you! EVERYONE!!!!! Japanese people I don't know, foreign people I don't know, everyone saying how good I looked, random people wanting to take pictures with me. It was...interesting.
But the sights were good, the souvenirs cheaper and the people all very friendly!
Also! I got a keitai! (Japanese cell phone)
This has to be the fanciest prepaid phone I have ever seen. You can mail (text...but not really) talk (but at 9 cents per 6 seconds...i think not) and watch TV, play games, read books, listen to music, browse the Internet (I didn't pay for that though) take pictures, scan bar codes? and EVERYTHING! it's AWESOME! And really not that badly priced (for being in Japan) the whole phone and plan was about 100$ and mail is unlimited for 3$ a month.